Stop “Shoulding” Yourself

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“I don’t live in a land of Instagram versus Reality.” - Jenn Bays The “should’s” of life will kill your business faster than almost anything else. They kill relationships, they kill creative thought, they kill all the good things that you are building with your work in the world. So stop shoulding yourself and start giving yourself grace! This episode is a tad different than anything I’ve done before. I’ve had a message on my heart to share and it’s been important in my life and my business, so I think it’s time. I have allowed the should’s in my life to affect my business growth and my overall happiness for too long. In fact, it wasn’t until my therapist pointed some of them out that I realized I was crippling myself out of the fear of expectation. What does that mean? Here’s a fantastic example. My son Davie goes to a private Montessori school that he absolutely loves. They also have after school care that he also REALLY enjoys. But in my haste to be the “best” mom, I thought I needed to pick him up right after school was done. It didn’t matter that he liked staying after and it didn’t matter if I had more work to do and that doing it with him around would stress me out. I needed to be THAT mom. Then someone asked me why? Why did I need to get him even though it was better for both of us that he stay a little longer? This same concept applies to cooking, cleaning, building your business at a pace that isn’t sustainable to you or your family. It applies to everything in life. Stop shoulding yourself and allow

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