
✨Polarizing Negative Self Talk, Perfectionism and Problem Spotting vs. Problem-Solving + 🅑🅞🅝🅤🅢! ✨
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<p>Happy Wednesday, millennial leaders and multi-passionate entrepreneurs!</p> <p>📢THE 12TH EPISODE OF THE LEADERS' LAB IS HERE! 🎉🎊🍾</p> <p>————————————✨ 𝗖𝗟𝗜𝗖𝗞 𝗧𝗢 𝗥𝗘𝗔𝗗 𝗠𝗢𝗥𝗘 ↓ ✨————————————</p> <p>You’re listening to 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙇𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙨' 𝙇𝙖𝙗 podcast where we talk all things leadership, communication and, learning how to balance multiple passions as a millennial professional.</p> <p>I’m your host, Dr. Charity C. Campbell affectionately known as Dr. C and I can’t wait to dig into today’s topic!</p> <p><strong>Polarizing negative self-talk</strong></p> <ul> <li>What does polarize mean? </li> <li>Perfectionism can be a cause of polarizing. <a href="https://www.lifehack.org/853702/negative-self-talk-types">Success Coach Awilda Rivera</a> wrote that one method for dealing with polarized thinking is to remind yourself – Perfection is an illusion and reality is subjective. <ul> <li><strong>Problem Spotting </strong>– you easily identify every problem. <em>No good can come of this or that. Here’s another failure. Here’s another issue. Here’s another weakness.</em></li> <li><strong>Problem Solving </strong>– you see a unique opportunity to solve the problem. <ol> <li><em>Problem spotting says, “I don’t have the resources.” Problem-solving says, “What I do not have, I will create.”</em></li> <li><em>Problem spotting says, “I really suck at this.” Problem-solving says, “I’ll try again and if still doesn’t work, then I’ll try a different approach.”</em></li> <li><em>Problem spotting says, “I have no experience because I’ve never done this before.” Problem-solving says, “Here’s an opportunity to learn something new!”</em></li> <li><em>Personal problem spotting story: Denied access to campus and not teaching this semester!!!</em></li> </ol> </li> </ul> </li> </ul> <p>Instead of problem-spotting, let’s change that negative self-talk into problem-solving opportunities. Here are a few affirmations that I’ve personally been practicing.