85 - Maintaining a Loving Heart

<p class="ng-scope" style="margin:5.55pt 0in 5.55pt 0in;">Love is the key to longevity, and longevity is the key to much fruit. That means that in order to bear much fruit we have to stay in relationship with people for a long time, and to do that we have to love them. If love declines, we withdraw, we become judgmental, we cease to pray for that person and stop serving them. And when those activities stop our positive influence comes to an end. We cease to be part of God’s solution and become part of the problem. So, if you and I are going to bear much fruit, as Jesus has asked us to do, we must learn how to maintain a loving heart. We can’t allow ourselves to grow sour. We can’t permit offenses to accumulate. We can’t let self-pity or impatience steal away our love. Yet the pressures of life wear heavily on all of us. Our physical health can vary. People can hurt us or disappoint us, and when they do we grow tired of them and just want to be alone.</p> <p class="ng-scope" style="margin:5.55pt 0in 5.55pt 0in;">When Jesus speaks about “bearing fruit” He’s saying that He wants you and me to help others become His disciples, and for that to happen we have to have healthy relationships with them. So learning to tend our hearts becomes a skill each of us must master. We must learn to monitor the condition of our love on a day to day basis. Has our love declined? Have people become a burden rather than a joy? Has offense taken hold and begun to strangle our affection? If so, those wrong attitudes must be pulled out like weeds must be removed from a garden. The love within us needs to be refreshed by drawing close to Jesus. We need to remember His commands and let them confront the wrong attitudes that have begun to grow. And above all, we must again and again make that decision to put the needs of others ahead of our own. I realize that there are people who end up in unhealthy, co-dependent relationships, but that’s not what Jesus was talking about when He told us to love one another as He has loved us. He was telling