You Can't Control Other People: 2 Ways to Cope with This & Still Show Up as a Boss

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">One of life’s biggest truths is that we have very little control over other people and how they show up and act. Even in a negotiation, we can have all our ducks in a row and the best intentions, but we still can’t control how people respond to us advocating for ourselves. </span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The real challenge is accepting this and making sure we don’t let that mean anything about who we really are. </span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">How do we make sure other people’s responses don’t take away our power? </span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In this episode, I offer two simple responses that save us from the frustration and disappointment of us not being in control of other people. </span></p> <p><br /> <br /></p> <p><strong>Three Things You’ll Learn In This Episode </strong></p> <p> </p> <p><strong>- How to blast through second-guessing and self-doubt </strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There’s always a risk of backlash when we set boundaries, so how do we overcome feeling bad about that? </span></p> <p> </p> <p><strong>- The mindset shift that will save you from a ton of despair</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“People are allowed to be wrong about me.” Why is this statement and belief so powerful? </span></p> <p> </p> <p><strong>- How to advocate from a place of strength  </strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">How do we know whether or not it serves us to say yes to a task?</span></p>