You Can Make This A Game...and Win

<p>The Stoics said it over and over: the most important thing to remember about pain and suffering is that it is inevitable. It can’t be avoided, so don’t make it worse by fearing it, worrying about whether it will come, wondering how bad it will be. <a href='https://dailystoic.com/letters-from-a-stoic/?utm_source=convert-kit&amp;utm_medium=convert-kit&amp;utm_campaign=make-this-a-game'>Seneca’s line</a> was that we suffer more in imagination than in reality. The essential <a href='https://dailystoic.com/enchiridion-epictetus/?utm_source=convert-kit&amp;utm_medium=convert-kit&amp;utm_campaign=make-this-a-game'>insight from Epictetus</a> was: It’s not things that upset us, it’s our opinion about them. <a href='https://dailystoic.com/meditations-marcus-aurelius/?utm_source=convert-kit&amp;utm_medium=convert-kit&amp;utm_campaign=make-this-a-game'>And Marcus Aurelius too</a>: If you choose to <em>feel</em> like you’ve been harmed, you have been. </p><p>At just eight years old, Verity Smith was told that, due to a rare genetic disorder, she would soon lose her eyesight. She didn’t have a choice. She would be blind. All that was left to her was how she would respond to this demand of fate. <a href='https://dailystoic.com/verity-smith-interview/?utm_source=convert-kit&amp;utm_medium=convert-kit&amp;utm_campaign=make-this-a-game'>In our interview with Verity</a>, we asked her to take us back to that diagnosis and how she came to terms, mentally and emotionally, with the painful realities of losing her vision. Her answer is extraordinary:</p><p><em>I saw going blind as a challenge, a game...I understood that the darkness was coming and that it would steal the faces of those I loved and the views of the landscapes I lived in, but in my innocence, I set to work filling my memory with images that would never fade. It was a game against the clock. My challenge was to drink in every sight, to exercise every sense and to become good at being blind before the lights went out. With my bedroom curtains drawn and a blindfold on, I