Why Divorces Happens

<p>Now I have talked about this a bit in <a href= "https://www.relaxedmale.com/why-marriages-fall-apart/">Episode 82</a></p> <h2>The 3 A's</h2> <p>There are 3 reasons for divorce and those are the 3 A's. These A's are trust destroyers. You can overcome these but it takes time and a lot of it. When I say, "time" I don't mean days or months I mean a minimum of 3 years but it can take as long as the offended party needs to trust in the offender again. Now those three A's are...</p> <ul> <li>Abuse</li> <li>Addiction</li> <li>Adultery</li> </ul> <p>You may hear something like, we just fell out of love. Ok but that isn't a reason to get a divorce. That is a thought and we are talking about thoughts soon.</p> <h2>One side dropped the ball</h2> <p>This is where often the woman gets tired of her man not being the man she married. Yes, this I am pointing at us dudes. Why? because when we marry we are often in shape and driven for a purpose. We are excited and out to conquer the world.</p> <p>Yet let a few years go by and we are sitting in front of the television watching sports and not going anywhere. We as men dropped the ball. Now the woman can do this too. However, this happens more to men than to women nowadays. Women initiate 70% of all divorces. They wouldn't do that as much if men were not dropping the ball.</p> <p>So yeah We do have to take responsibility for women not being satisfied with what we are doing. We <a href= "https://www.relaxedmale.com/are-you-man-enough-for-these-3-tests-women-run-on-men/" data-type="post" data-id="18315">failed many of their tests</a>.</p> <p>When we give up and resign our lives to what it is. The women in our lives will not be happy. They want to go on an adventure with their man.</p> <h2>The Emotional Connection Faded</h2> <p>This is often a reason given when one side has given up. Now it is often stated because of the lack of being fed a love language. It could also be that one part of the marriage doesn't see an objective. They struggle with finding why. This is often tied to dro