Why are lies so hurtful?

This conversation came on the heels of the How to Spot a Liar (<a href='https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZjURMhIys7M&t=0s'>https://youtu.be/ZjURMhIys7M</a>). Is allowing yourself to be lied to a personal failing? Should you feel guilty about believing a lie or not being able to spot a liar? If you take responsibility for believing a lie, does that make you easy to gaslight?   Listen in as Kristin Bainger, Wayne Buckhanan, Rowley Maggs and I try to tease apart the murky emotional space between expectation, lies and honesty.   To learn about the panelists, please visit their LinkedIn profiles: Rowley Maggs: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqa19BaUJRY2M3d0Rqd0c1WHdFc0pUQURtd0xhZ3xBQ3Jtc0tsVGxXZzZhazVmbHpiRmRhbXVNRXYyR0pFcl9mRklwcTJFVklxQi01bGh5VHlfRXVCV203cDRzRjhzeUlIa05xdC1aekRkSFJXV2NFSG5IS0VXYzlWcHZ1QzVBeDFUbUFMbFdkdGJobUlIUjJVS2JCWQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.linkedin.com%2Fin%2Frowleymaggs%2F'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/rowleymaggs/</a> Dr. Wayne Buckhanan: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/waynebuckhanan/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/waynebuckhanan/</a>Kristin Bainger: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/kristin-g-bainger-she-her-6aa5866/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/kristin-g-bainger-she-her-6aa5866/</a> Dr Robyn Odegaard: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/robynodegaard/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/robynodegaard/</a> <a href='https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/quickhits'>#QuickHits</a> are designed to exercise your brain by letting you listen in on an unscripted conversation to get other people's thoughts on various subjects. If you have a topic you would like to hear discussed, please message me.   <a href='https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/lying'>#lying</a> <a href='https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/honesty'>#honesty</a> <a href='https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/howtospotaliar'>#HowToSpotaLiar</a> <a href='https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/podcast'>#podcast</a>