What the words DON'T mean

<p>You know the scene. The husband and wife are having a difference of opinion. Both of them know full well there is a quiet disagreement happening right now. After a dark look, she responds with "we're fine, you get going!"</p> <p>But what do those words really mean?</p> <p>If you are like most husbands, those words seem to echo far deeper into our identities - am I a bad husband? Are we just going to keep fighting later? I guess there's no chance of meeting in the bedroom later.</p> <p>We can be crushed - not by what was said, but instead by a meaning that doesn't come from the actual words, but from our thoughts.</p> <p>Join me in this episode as I discuss how our thoughts regularly create deeper, scarier, and often unintended meanings from other peoples words. We all do it - and well suffer when we do.</p> <p>You are always free to choose how you show up. This is real responsibility.</p>