What happens after you stop people-pleasing with Rachael Tomasello

<p>A trend we’ve noticed with almost every people-pleaser we’ve coached (or anyone who cares too much about what others think) is that they have a really hard time knowing who they are and what they want.</p> <p>It makes sense. When you’ve spent your whole life looking outward—“What will make these people happy?” “Who do I need to be to be liked, loved and accepted?”—Then there’s no space to go inward and consider who <em>you</em> are and what you want. And sadly, often you’ve been actively <em>discouraged</em> from asking those questions at all. You’re told it’s “selfish.”</p> <p>You can probably relate, and so can Rachael Tomasello. In this month’s brand-new interview with a normal person, Rachel and Rachael got into…</p> <ul> <li>How Rachael spent a decade in a career that wasn’t aligned with her because it was what she was “supposed” to do.</li> <li>How she had to seriously tone down her natural personality and interests around her family, for fear of being judged and rejected.</li> <li>The challenges that popped up when she made a 180 pivot in her career toward something way more suited to her.</li> <li>Her guidance about how to take feedback, and whose opinions about you and your work matter (and whose don’t).</li> <li>How she got comfortable with the idea of allowing herself to scare people, if necessary!</li> </ul> <p>There is SO much to relate to in this one. <a href= "https://clarityonfire.com/stop-people-pleasing-rachael-tomasello" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Leave a comment</a> after you’ve listened to share what resonated with you most!</p> <p>GETTING OVER PEOPLE PLEASING IS COMING BACK!</p> <p>Caring too much about what other people think is one of the TOP reasons people struggle to know who they are or what they want out of life. Before you can find direction, it helps to get to the root of one of your deepest blocks!</p> <p>Our course, <em>Getting Over People Pleasing</em>, will be open for enrollment from Friday, August 21 to Friday, August 28!</p> <ul> <li>This course will NOT be available 24