What Are the Odds of Finding Love as You Age? with Melissa

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">No matter the age, everyone believes that they’re too old for something. Twenty and thirty-something year-olds think they’re getting too long in the tooth to get married and start a family. Those in their 40s or 50s believe they’re too old to meet someone new, and seniors just plain think they’re too old for everything, period. Time’s always running out!</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">While this doesn’t have to be true, so many of us take it on as our truth. We see the number that is our age and attach a story to it as if it were real. Melissa has taken on these kinds of beliefs. She feels she’s too old, too busy, and too tired for a relationship. So in this episode, I help her get to the root of why her beliefs are there in the first place.</span></p> <p><strong>8:38</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- Melissa describes her situation and reveals her relationship fear</span></p> <p><strong>12:12</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- What’s really keeping Melissa from spending the time and energy on dating</span></p> <p><strong>17:53</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- Getting to the core of what Melissa’s beliefs are really about</span></p> <p><strong>21:12</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- What Melissa needs to do to build up trust in herself for a relationship</span></p> <p><strong>26:00</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- The surprising question I ask clients who see some part of themselves as a problem</span></p> <p><strong>29:05</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- The difference between dating from a fearful vs. trustful place</span></p> <p><strong>31:10</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- How Melissa can best practice self-forgiveness</span></p> <p><strong>37:23</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- Why I don’t believe in the idea of mistakes and recapping key points from the coaching call</span></p> <p><strong>40:55</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- Your action steps from this episode</span></p>