TW: WIBTA if I don't go to my lesbian daughter's wedding?

<p>Skip to first stich: 19:20.  TW: I don't love some stuff I said defending OP in the first sitch and namesake and am just covering myself, there are points where not coming out gets equated to lying, which it isn't. Second up, it's <span style= "font-weight: 400;">AITA For pretty much giving my wife an ultimatum? Don't miss plenty of delicious UPS hate. See ya next week!</span></p> <p> </p> <p> </p>