The magic of thinking like a happily single woman with Shani Silver

<p>*Cue Destiny’s Child* <em>All the women, who independent, throw your hands up at me. All the honeys, who making money, throw your hands up at me.</em></p> <p>Sometimes as woman (especially if you’re over 30) it’s easy to gloss over everything you’ve accomplished in life—finding a career you enjoy, evolving as a person, developing deep friendships, making an impact in your community, eating well, staying fit—if you still haven’t attained a romantic relationship.</p> <p>And the world will certainly validate you on that front. From well-meaning family who ask why you’re still single, to your married friends who think you should “try matchmaking or speed dating! It could be fun!!” … the silent implication is often <em>“your relationship status needs to be fixed.”</em> And when it feels like you need fixing, that makes you feel a little broken.</p> <p>On this month’s interview with an expert, Rachel sits down with Shani Silver, the host of a Single Serving Podcast. Shani spent 10 years being single and miserable until she made a profound shift and started deeply enjoying her life. They got into…</p> <ul> <li>Why your relationship status isn’t something that needs “fixing.”</li> <li>How Shani got off dating apps completely, and why she’s a big advocate for you deleting them, too.</li> <li>How to get off the rollercoaster of hope and disappointment when it comes to dating and relationships.</li> <li>Why enjoying being single is actually the best way to attract a real, healthy relationship (if that’s what you want).</li> </ul> <p><strong>This episode is NOT just for single people! Maybe you’re happily partnered but your career remains that <em>one thing</em> you just can’t make happen, or maybe your career is solid but your body image is shaky … apply Shani’s wisdom to whatever <em>that sticky, stubborn thing</em> is that you wish were different.</strong></p> <p>After you’ve listened, <a href= "https://clarityonfire.com/happily-single-woman-shani-silver" target="_blank" rel="noopener">leave us a comment</a> to share h