The Key to Happiness Is to Be Miserable?

<p>Where you are at in your life? Are you struggling to find meaning or maybe no matter how hard you try you just aren't happy? This is a common problem for most men. They are sitting on the couch, their life is sort of Blah. Maybe you are wondering how in the heck you ended up in this predicament? You had so much fire when you were young and then life just took over. Now you are overweight. Watching a game on the huge screen television. You have the house, the cars, the kids, yet you aren't really happy, You aren't depressed either you are just sort of Meh!</p> <p>You are married and yet the sexual wild child you married now goes to bed in 2 layers of clothing socks on and maybe she lets you have some nookie once a month or so. The sex is almost like pitty sex. It achieves the purpose but there really isn't much passion in it.</p> <h2>Where did you lose yourself?</h2> <p>It is not that you aren't happy with the life you are pleased somewhat with what you have yet you believe that there should be more laughing and happiness floating through the air. Yet each week there is a new fire to put out. You have a honey-do list that isn't shrinking at all. You aren't overly joyous with where you are. The dream was to have the house and kids right? Well yeah but that is only one aspect and you are not facing the other parts of your life.</p> <p>We were told that if we work hard we will get far in life. So why are you not happy? Why are you not filled with so much joy that you can't stop laughing? Your wife's clothes should be falling off the moment you step into the house. What could you possibly be doing wrong?</p> <p>You do all the things that make sense to you. You stay away from negative people. You may go as far as not allowing negative people into your life. You may even keep a little sunshine in your pocket and you are such the little sunshine that some people may go as far as calling you<a href= "https://www.relaxedmale.com/can-positivity-be-toxic/"> Toxicly Positive</a> because you can't stand having people around