The Green Gumball: Compete with Her for Me

<p>The Green Gumball: Green with Envy, Compete with Her for Me, is the guy who you'll be sitting with at your first or second date and he says, "I've gone on a few dates with this other girl, and I really thought she was it for me, but now that I've met you...I really like you too. I'm just not sure."</p> <p>Just imagine, how do you feel in that moment?</p> <p>You may feel the sudden urge to prove yourself worthy. Prove that YOU'RE the right choice, and start to compete with her. And that's exactly what gives him the high.</p> <p>Know that none of what he does is about you. It is HIS insecurity, and he's just manipulating you and trying to get a reaction so he can feel better about himself.</p> <p>In this episode, I give you all the red flags of a Green Gumball, how to respond when you're on a date with one or in a relationship with one, and how to stop going after these types of guys.</p> <h2>Follow and Work with Melissa</h2> <ul> <li>The Back to You Academy is officially closed, but you can still work with Melissa one-on-one! Click <span style= "color: #e74c3c;"><a style="color: #e74c3c;" href= "https://melissa-leger.mykajabi.com/workwithme">here</a></span> to view services or reach out via email: <span style= "color: #e74c3c;"><a style="color: #e74c3c;" href= "mailto:melissa@gumballlove.com">melissa@gumballlove.com</a></span> </li> <li>Direct Message Melissa on Instagram, @themelissaleger</li> <li>Join the <span style="color: #e74c3c;"><a style= "color: #e74c3c;" href= "https://www.facebook.com/groups/GumballLovePrivateVIPClubHouse">VIP Facebook group</a></span></li> </ul>