
Q&A #2: How do we help children who are ‘falling behind’ without using milestones?
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<span style="font-weight: 400">This Q&A episode comes from a special education preschool teacher had listened to the <a href="https://yourparentingmojo.com/captivate-podcast/yourxyearoldchild">Why We Shouldn’t Read The Your X-Year-Old Child books anymore</a>, and wondered: </span> <span style="font-weight: 400">My first thought was: There’s </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400">no way</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400"> I’m touching that question, because I don’t have the relevant qualifications and I’ll get torn apart.</span> <span style="font-weight: 400">I’ve been in some groups for Autistic parents for several months now, and one thing that’s abundantly clear is that qualified professionals use ‘treatments’ for Autistic children that these now-grown up people describe as </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400">abuse </span></i><span style="font-weight: 400">(and believe me; I don’t use that word lightly. It’s a direct quote from many different people).</span> <span style="font-weight: 400">So if the qualified professionals are using methods that the people who have experienced them call abusive, I think I have a responsibility to at least offer thoughts for parents to consider as they’re navigating the process of diagnosis and treatment.</span> <span style="font-weight: 400">Too often, parents are pushed to take their child directly from diagnosis to treatment, as if we’re missing some critical window of opportunity. But what if </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400">no treatment</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400"> was sometimes the best option?</span> <span style="font-weight: 400">I don’t consider this episode to be The Final Word on What Parents Should Do. It’s more of a conversation starter…a way to raise some ideas that parents might not hear from the doctors who are pushing them toward treatment as fast as possible.</span> <b>Setting Loving (& Effective!) Limits workshop is coming soo
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Q&A #2: How do we help children who are ‘falling behind’ without using milestones?
dpoppyM