Mel Robbins - The High 5 Habit

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In today’s episode, our guest is an author and speaker, Mel Robbins. She was the world's most booked female speaker, with a fee of $100,000 per hour. She had numerous audiobooks being listened to every day. The 5 Second Rule was Audible's nonfiction bestseller in 2017 and the most successful self-published audiobook of all time, with 2 million copies sold in 33 languages and 100,000+ five-star ratings. Today, she will share with us her journey on how she figured out how she can change her habits and be a more confident and fulfilled person. Stay tuned! </span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[3:02] </span><strong>Why should we listen to you?</strong></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I don't think you should, and I believe that you should do what you authentically want to do. And if I have a vibe or energy about me that clicks, then you'll want to listen and talk to me. And if I don't, you shouldn't listen or talk to me.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[4:04] </span><strong>Do you find you've ever had conversations where you feel like “I'm supposed to be important,” and then someone makes it clear you're not to them?</strong><span style= "font-weight: 400;"> </span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I recently had this interview where it was a guy who I think had been in broadcast forever. He had invited me to come on his podcast. And he's not on camera. He keeps his camera off. And I say, hey, I've done some research, but could you tell me about your audience and your ideal intention so that I can make sure that the way I show up in this interview aligns with what your audience likes? And he's like, “Oh, it's a generic audience.” He was dismissive. Then he asked me the first question, which was, “So, tell me about the high five habits.” It was a wide-open question. I was explaining whatever, I've just written a book about it. And so I'm telling the story, and all of a sudden he goes, “You know, could you stop ta