Love, Lust and Laughter - 07.18.23

<p style="font-weight:400;">Alternative Relationship Arrangements</p> <p style="font-weight:400;"> </p> <p style="font-weight:400;"><a href='http://www.davidsteinberg.us/'>David Steinberg</a> is a writer of consummate intelligence and compassion! Whether he is writing books or taking photographs, it comes across that sex is who we are, how we live, and how we experience pleasure and life. I’ve known David since 1988 when his first book <a href='https://www.amazon.com/Erotic-Nature-David-Steinberg/dp/0933211031/'>Erotic by Nature</a> was published. We’ve been friends for 35 years!</p> <p style="font-weight:400;"> </p> <p style="font-weight:400;">David and I discuss Open Relationships (one aspect of ethical nonmonogamy) and Living Apart Together. David and Kim, his partner of 17 years, practice both. David talks about how they give each other freedom, they get to be who they authentically are. He says they keep it fresh!  Every year and a day Kim and David meet to review and further define their relationship. Do they want to continue for another year and a day? It appears they have the real thing going on, a true love story!</p> <p style="font-weight:400;"> </p> <p style="font-weight:400;">Ethical Nonmonogamy (ENM) describes the situation where members of a couple consent to having additional sexual and/or romantic partners, and it’s gaining in popularity. More than a fifth of single American adults have engaged in ENM according to recent studies. ENM requires self-reflection, radically open communication, and compassion. Boundaries and rules are discussed; they may need to be re-negotiated over time. The trust is built on the fact that there’s nothing to hide.</p> <p style="font-weight:400;"> </p> <p style="font-weight:400;">Living Apart Together (LAT) refers to committed couples who each keep separate homes, often because they cherish private space and financial independence. Often these couples begin their relationship later in life. Both David and Dr. Diana have their respective LAT situations. The thrill in yo