Lift Them Up, Don’t Hold Them Back

<p>&quot;Family is wonderful. None of us would be here, <a href='https://geni.us/zANnWwA'>the writer Aaron Thier</a> once put it, if people hadn’t taken care of us when we were small. Somebody birthed us, raised us, drove us to school, kept us safe. </p><p>So naturally we feel an affinity and obligation to our family, as we hope our own children will. Being around them is comfortable. It’s familiar. It’s primal. But it’s also important that we realize, as we get older as parents, that we always remember that our job is <a href='https://dailydad.com/help-but-dont-make-them-helpless/?utm_source=sendfox&amp;utm_medium=sendfox&amp;utm_campaign=lift-them-up'>to lift our children up, to push them forward, and never to hold them back</a>. That’s why we have to work on ourselves. That’s why we can’t get complacent or selfish.&quot;<br/><br/>Ryan talks about the importance of teaching your kids to eventually live their lives independently.<br/><br/>***<br/><br/>If you enjoyed this week’s podcast, we’d love for you to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps with our visibility, and the more people listen to the podcast, the more we can invest into it and make it even better.</p><p>Sign up for the Daily Dad email: DailyDad.com</p><p>Follow @DailyDadEmail:</p><p>Twitter: <a href='https://twitter.com/ryanholiday'>https://twitter.com/ryanholiday</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/ryanholiday/'>https://www.instagram.com/ryanholiday/</a></p><p>Facebook: <a href='http://facebook.com/ryanholiday'>http://facebook.com/ryanholiday</a></p><p>See Privacy Policy at <a href='https://art19.com/privacy' rel='noopener noreferrer' target='_blank'>https://art19.com/privacy</a> and California Privacy Notice at <a href='https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info' rel='noopener noreferrer' target='_blank'>https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info</a>.</p>