Inside the Facebook group vetting London men

<p>The Evening Standard’s Maddy Mussen takes us inside the ‘Are We Dating the Same Guy’ London Facebook group where women share dating notes on men - with more than 20,000 members and counting.&nbsp;</p><br><p>The main aim is to vet a man you’re interested in, even before you meet him. Flag toxic behaviour, identify potential ‘players’ and more than anything, keep women safe.&nbsp;</p><br><p>But, can all the information be trusted? And is it <em>only</em> being used for good?&nbsp;</p><br><p>One of the group’s members, ‘Flossie’ - not her real name -&nbsp;tells us her story. Why she joined, her concerns and what London's dating scene is currently like…</p><br /><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>