How to stop seeking external validation

𝕎𝕒𝕟𝕥 𝕥𝕠 𝕤𝕥𝕠𝕡 𝕤𝕖𝕖𝕜𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕧𝕒𝕝𝕚𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟 𝕗𝕣𝕠𝕞 𝕠𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕣𝕤? "I'm desperately seeking how to get over needing male validation" is what Claire (not real name), a 51 year old woman asked me after telling of her shame & regret after declaring her love to a man who 'wants nothing to do with her', on a rebound from being divorced from an exhusband who ran off with the mistress. Claire said she felt more angry at herself for rushing to fill the void left by divorce with another man, due to fearing being alone with herself. 𝐂𝐚𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞? 𝐀𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐫𝐮𝐧𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠  𝐚𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟? 𝐈𝐟 𝐬𝐨, 𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐈 𝐭𝐨𝐥𝐝 𝐂𝐥𝐚𝐢𝐫𝐞. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/crone-life-joy-reboot/message Support this podcast: <a href="https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/crone-life-joy-reboot/support" rel="payment">https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/crone-life-joy-reboot/support</a>