How To Love and Be Loved | Part 2: The 3 Wounds of Love #232

<blockquote> <p style="text-align: center;"><strong>“</strong><strong>We've got to name these wounds. We've got to enter into them, touch them, heal them, verbalize and then release them so that we can be the people that we were created to be.”</strong> <strong>–</strong> <strong>Joe Ehrmann</strong></p> </blockquote> <p> </p> <p>Wounds from your past can have a devastating impact on the way you feel about yourself and others. In this episode, the second in a special series of six, Brian and Joe Ehrmann teach how to identify and heal those wounds that make it difficult for you to truly love and be loved. Topics discussed include how a deeply personal experience with his young son led Joe to reflect on his own relationship with his father; how an incident in Brian’s childhood inspired his motivation to succeed in life; and why healing is not about affixing blame, but about understanding what shaped you.</p> <p> </p> <p><strong>YOU WILL LEARN:</strong></p> <ul> <li>The three basic questions we all have about identity, intimacy and industry.</li> <li>How we can be wounded by our nature, our nurture and our culture.</li> <li>Why the number one wound in our society is the father wound.</li> </ul> <p> </p> <p><strong>MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:</strong></p> <p><a href="https://insideoutinitiative.org/">InSideOut Initiative</a></p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p><strong>INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE:</strong></p> <p>“I think all of us come into this world with three basic questions. And the first is a question of identity: Who am I? The second is a question of intimacy: Who will love me? And the third is one of industry: What can I do with my life?” – Joe Ehrmann</p> <p>“Most people want to change their circumstances, but they don't want to change themselves. The challenge is, if you change yourself, circumstances will change also.” – Brian Buffini</p> <p>“If you have a pebble in your shoe and you leave it there, you're eventually going to develop a limp. And you can learn to walk through life with a limp, but it'