
Healing Your Relationship with Money
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Last week one of my clients got an unpleasant text and said, “I don’t know why they keep doing that!”</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">My response was, “Let’s read that text again and pretend like it’s your unconscious mind talking to you.” </span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">We uncovered some ideas that she had believed for a long time, but she had been looking at it from "It's them and not me." And when she embraced "This is me because my unconscious mind is me," then we were able to do some magnificent work. </span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Metaphors and symbols are the language of the unconscious mind. Carl Jung and Milton Erickson would say that your whole life experience is one big metaphor. </span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Let’s use money as an example because it’s tangible. If your life experience is a metaphor, what does your experience with money tell you about the patterns you’re running inside?</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I use my souped-up version of NLP time techniques in my client work to uncover long-existing patterns and beliefs that no longer serve them. We glean what learnings we can take away from experiences, then release negative emotions and eliminate the limiting beliefs. And all of this is facilitated by communicating with their unconscious mind. Our work is to connect to the meaning behind the symbols embedded in the metaphor their unconscious mind is using to show us the problem.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I’ve been doing this work for a long time. Releasing negative emotions at an unconscious level is not a one-and-done event. So, before recording this episode, I decided to release negative emotions around money. I didn't really feel any, but I've done this several times since I grew up with boatloads of limiting beliefs around money. </span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">To my surprise, my un