Episode 100 - Looking in their garden or their garbage?

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If we want to live in a beautiful world, we must give up the fault-finding mind. The more we give up faulting-finding, the happier we will be. Our relationships will also be more harmonious. We can decide what kind of world we want to live in-- a beautiful world or a world full of faults and problems.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><strong>To celebrate the 100th episode, I am giving away a 30 minute phone call with me to talk about your practice (or anything you would like) and a mala I made and blessed. For a chance to win, go to</strong> <a href= "http://www.joannfox.net"><strong>www.JoAnnFox.net</strong></a> <strong>and enter your email between March 14th -  March 21, 2021. Winner will be announced on March 21, 2021 on the podcast, social media, and notified by email. Good luck and thank you for listening! </strong></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Beauty and faults are not inherent in a person. Beauty and faults originate from our mind. Beauty is in the proverbial eye of the beholder and so our faults. Moreover, what you see in another person they show you back. What they show you back, they begin to believe about themselves. If you start to see beauty in another person, they will start to see it in themselves.</span></p> <p><strong><em>Are you looking in their garden or are you looking in their garden?</em></strong></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you need to deliver some criticism, check this first:</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">* What is the motivation behind it?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">& Deliver it when you’re calm</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It’s easy to see the faults of others,</span></p> <p><span style= "font-weight: 400;">     But hard to see one’s own.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">One sifts out others faults like chaff</span></p> <p><span style= "font-weight: 400;">     But conceals one’s own,</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">     As a cheat conc