EP180: The Anatomy of Your Enneagram Type: The Enneagram THREE—Achieving Your Wildest Dreams with Your Heart

We all want to be like the Enneagram 3, otherwise known as the Competitive Achiever. <br /><br />3s raise the bar on setting and hitting goals. But all of that winning sometimes means sacrificing their health and relationships.<br /><br />The truth is, 3s put a LOT of pressure on themselves. And although the rest of us would never know it, Enneagram 3s often live in torture and feel very much alone.<br /><br />On this episode of The Leadership Formula, I introduce you to the anatomy of the Enneagram 3, describing how 3s are driven by significance built on what they achieve or how they appear to the world.<br /><br />I discuss the 3’s blind spot around making other people feel dismissed, explaining how they can leverage their 2 and 4 wings to slow down, tap into their emotions and stretch into their growth number 6 (the Loyalist).<br /><br />Listen in to understand why 3s don’t let us see it when they’ve shifted into their unhealthy stress number 9 and learn how to help the Achievers in your life realize that their worth is based on who they are, not what they do.<br /> <br />What You Will Learn <br /> <br />How Enneagram 3s are driven by significance built on achievement and appearance<br />How others experience Enneagram 3s at their best vs. in an unhealthy place<br />The danger in the Enneagram 3 basing their self-worth on what they do rather than who they are<br />The Enneagram 3’s gift for delegating responsibility and adapting to their circumstances<br />The Enneagram 3’s tendency to make other people feel dismissed (and what to do about it)<br />How 3s can leverage their 4 wing to decide if the goal they’re pursuing is something they really want<br />How slowing down and tapping into their emotions helps 3s stretch into their growth number 6<br />Why 3s don’t let us see when they’ve shifted into their unhealthy stress number 9<br />Why the self-preservation or ‘lone wolf’ Achiever doesn’t look like a typical 3<br />What differentiates the competitiveness of the one-to-one 3 from the social subtype<br /><br