EP162: Live Enneagram Typing Session—Reaching Beyond with Kyle D. (Enneagram 2)

Are you good at reading a room? Instinctively knowing what others are feeling? And giving them what they need?<br /><br />Kyle Depiesse is a connector. A strong, sensitive man with a gift for helping people reach beyond what they thought was possible and, in that setting, discover a sense of belonging.<br /><br />Kyle is the high-level business and transformation coach behind The Reaching Beyond Experience, a practice that helps high-achieving men find more fulfillment through bucket-list experiences. He is also the host of the Reaching Beyond Podcast, a show dedicated to helping people find harmony in their personal and professional life.<br /><br />On this episode of The Leadership Formula, Kyle and I do a live typing session, exploring how his ability to feel what others feel and need is characteristic of the Enneagram 2, otherwise known as the compassionate helper.<br /><br />I explain how 2s feel worthy by being of service to others, describing how a healthy 2 sets boundaries around their giving and why it’s challenging for 2s to do something for themselves by themselves.<br /><br />Listen in to understand what triggers resentment in the compassionate helper and get Kyle’s advice for other strong, sensitive men on leaning into your vulnerability.<br /> <br />What You'll Learn <br /> <br />How Enneagram 2s feel worthy by being of service to others<br />Kyle’s ability to feel what others feel and need<br />Why the Enneagram 2 is known as the compassionate helper <br />How Kyle’s 1:1 subtype influences the way he operates<br />How an Enneagram 2 can lean into their 1 and 3 wings to get braver with their words<br />How a healthy 2 can help and give with boundaries<br />Why it’s challenging for a 2 to do something for themselves by themselves<br />Why compassionate helpers don’t ask for help<br />The resentment explosion that results when a 2 overgives<br />How a 2 can read the room in a group setting and bring people together<br />Kyle’s advice on leaning into the sensitive part of yourself<br />What inspired K