EP 426: How Your Inner Child Can Stop Being Triggered So Much in Relationships with Oliver

<p dir="ltr">This coaching call is about breaking the childhood patterns that show up in relationships. Today’s caller, Oliver, struggles to embody his power and set boundaries when he is triggered in relationships. He asks for guidance on how to break and grow beyond survival patterns.</p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">[For show notes, go here: <a href= "http://christinehassler.com/episode426">Christinehassler.com/episode426</a>].</p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Many of us can relate to being our current age but in certain situations, we act in a way that is sabotaging, embarrassing, or doesn’t get us what we want. Why do we act like this? Because there is often inner child wounding and programming at play.</p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Survival patterns are tricky to change and they can hang on for a long time because a large portion of them are subconscious. Often, we have to duplicate our parental family of origin situation to wake up and transform our survival patterns. It is a necessary part of evolution. It doesn’t matter how much awareness we have, we have to walk through a situation to heal it.</p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">It is hard work and often thankless work when we are the pattern breakers in our family. If we don’t have role models at home, we have to add in new programming. Watching movies, reading books, writing it out, or spending time with others to gain examples of what healthy relationships look like is important.</p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">There are things we heal, and then there are some things that take a bit more time. The evolution, the moving out of fear, judgment, beliefs, and pain into love, is ongoing. The next time you feel that you have dealt with something before, or have awareness about something, get more curious about it.</p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">The work is never done. We are always learning and growing.</p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Christine wants to hear from you! She is consideri