Ep #222: Resistance and Manifesting

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Resistance is a part of the process. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Here is the Google definition: the refusal to accept or comply with something; the attempt to prevent something by action or argument.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In growth, resistance naturally happens when who you are bumps up against who you are becoming.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It happens because while you want everything your Future Self has, you are also scared of what that means she does not have. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Because you don’t get to know every detail or what is going to change and evolve as you become your Future Self.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Often, this causes resistance. Which can be a refusal to comply with things your Future Self does. Or strong actions of holding on to the things you are most afraid to lose.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A refusal is resistance. And it can look like:</span></p> <ul> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Not telling your coach things</span></li> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Holding tightly to things you sense you might lose</span></li> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Withdrawing</span></li> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Pretending everything is fine</span></li> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Not asking for help</span></li> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Not sharing the truth of what you are feeling</span></li> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Justifying not doing the “work”</span></li> </ul> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">These are all things that Kate did.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Maybe you recognize that you have done these things in the past as well.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It’s okay. It’s helpful to recognize it so you have a better awareness if it happens again. </span></p> <div class="col-lg-3-4 section"> <div class="tab-area"> <div class="tab-contents"> <div i