E157. Lessons from 90K Mastermind Part 3 Be a Shepherd Not a Savior

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Do you tend to show co-dependency in most of your relationships? Always sacrificing your life for others while you neglect your own needs?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In this episode PivotMe, April talks about her realization of her lifelong co-dependency in her relationships. Listen in to learn the importance of shifting from a savior complex and instead concentrating on saving yourself and being a shepherd. </span></p> <p><strong>In This Episode You Will Learn:</strong></p> <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">[2:40] April on when she realized she’d allowed and created co-dependent relationships in her life.</span></li> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">[10:50] Understand that your loved ones need you to be their shepherd instead of their savior.</span></li> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style= "font-weight: 400;"> [11:45] How to shift from your savior self to a shepherd that leads their people.</span></li> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">[14:09] Start living your life while guiding others instead of sacrificing it.   </span></li> </ul> <p><strong>Quotes:</strong></p> <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><strong><em>“There’s a fine line between being a provider, a savior, and an enabler.”</em></strong><span style="font-weight: 400;">- April [10:56]</span></li> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><strong><em>“They don’t need me to save myself, they need to watch me save myself.”</em></strong><span style="font-weight: 400;">- April [11:39]</span></li> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><strong><em>“Just because we’ve been this way for a long time doesn’t mean we need to stay this way.”</em></strong><span style="font-weight: 400;">- April [12:44]</span></li> </ul> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">What can you do today?</span></em> <strong><em>To Be Productive. Effective.