Dear Krachel: Tell me how to stop thinking, “This will never happen!”

<p class="p1">Welcome to another episode of Dear Krachel, our monthly advice segment where we answer listener questions about life, career, relationships, existential angst, and anything that helps you become a more whole, fulfilled version of yourself.</p> <p class="p1"> </p> <p class="p1">This month we answered questions from:</p> <p class="p1"> </p> <ul class="ul1"> <li class="li1">Samantha, who listened to our last <a href= "https://clarityonfire.com/needs-wants-different/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span class="s2">Side Chat about wants vs. needs</span></a> and started wondering about how that idea applies to <em>money</em>—when is it a need, and when does it become a want? <strong>And are you allowed to think that a large amount of money is actually a need?</strong></li> <li class="li1">So Many Books, So Little Time, who’s very overwhelmed by all the things she wants to do, but doesn’t have time for now that she’s working a 9-5 again. <strong>How do you even begin to choose which books, podcasts, shows, courses, and YouTube videos to check out, and which to ignore?</strong></li> <li class="li1">Amelia, who listened to some of our past Bonus Book Club episodes (linked below!) and was inspired to experiment with the Law of Attraction. She’s mind-blown with the results! But now that she’s realized how powerful her thoughts and intentions are, she wants to stop thinking things like, “I’ll never meet someone!” <strong>How do you stop fixating on things that you <em>don’t</em> want to happen?</strong></li> </ul> <p class="p3"> </p> <p class="p3"><span class="s2"><a href= "https://clarityonfire.com/stop-thinking-never-happen" target= "_blank" rel="noopener">Leave a comment</a></span> after you’ve listened to share how our advice for these listeners resonated with you!</p> <p class="p1"> </p> <p class="p1">Want to submit a question for our June episode of Dear Krachel? <a href="http://clarityonfire.com/podcast-questions/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span class="s2">Fill out this form and you might hear us