Dear Krachel: How do I decide which opportunity to pursue?

<p class="p1">Welcome to another episode of Dear Krachel, our monthly advice segment where we answer listener questions about life, career, relationships, existential angst, and anything that helps you become a more whole, fulfilled version of yourself.</p> <p class="p2"> </p> <p class="p1"><strong>This month we answered questions from:</strong></p> <p class="p2"> </p> <ul class="ul1"> <li class="li1"><span class="s2">Higher Thoughts, who’s in a “mental breakdown, rock bottom, everything spiral out of control” phase … <strong>how do they regain focus and positivity when everything is falling apart?</strong></span></li> <li class="li1"><span class="s2">Tasha, whose passion is cooking and whose dream is to open her own restaurant. But she’s done research into what it takes to become a chef, and the low pay, long hours, and weekend work is making her think again. <strong>Should she pursue her dream anyway and ignore the disadvantages?</strong></span></li> <li class="li1"><span class="s2">Loving Shiny Objects, who can’t seem to stop bouncing from one amazing opportunity to the next, often before they finish the last thing they started. <strong>How do they tame their incessant fascination with everything and actually decide what to pursue?</strong></span></li> </ul> <p class="p3"> </p> <p class="p4">We also got an update from Murphy’s Law, a listener who wrote us back <a href= "https://clarityonfire.com/ask-people-meet-my-needs/" target= "_blank" rel="noopener"><span class="s3">in April of last year</span></a> when she was in a phase where everything was going wrong—listen in to hear how things turned out!</p> <p class="p3"> </p> <p class="p4">And come <a href= "https://clarityonfire.com/pursue-which-opportunity" target= "_blank" rel="noopener"><span class="s3">leave a comment</span></a> after you’ve listened to share how our advice for these listeners resonated with you!</p> <p class="p2"> </p> <p class="p1">CHECK OUT OUR FREE E-BOOKS!</p> <p class="p2"> </p> <p class="p1">At the end of the episode you’ll hear us men