David Neal: leadership is not about you (#42)

<p>1:39 - from enemies to best mates.</p><p>6:12 - there is nothing noble about being harmless.</p><p>7:06 - avoiding or engaging with conflict.</p><p>7:27 - what makes a leader?</p><p>8:50 - good leadership looks different in different contexts.</p><p>11:40 - the leadership style in the military.</p><p>12:59 - how values and beliefs impact team performance.</p><p>15:12 - navigating the conflicts that arise from having a diverse team.</p><p>15:35 - definition of leadership.</p><p>16:30 - diversity is contextual. What are you trying to achieve?</p><p>18:43 - are you trying to be right or correct?</p><p>20:36 - leaders represent people authentically in forums where they cannot represent themselves.</p><p>22:18 - trying to be right disengages people around you.</p><p>23:41 - it's better to lose the battle and keep the relationship, especially with your kids.</p><p>25:07 - extreme ownership and admitting mistakes.</p><p>27:28 - where the name Eighth Mile Consulting came from.</p><p>29:18 - owning our mistakes turns our weakness into a strength.</p><p>31:39 - owning your faults increases your credibility and your ability to influence.</p><p>32:55 - steelman and strawman debating tactics.</p><p>36:01 - influence starts by listening, not speaking.</p><p>38:14 - it takes discipline to shut up and listen.</p><p>41:55 - I don't have time to listen.</p><p>44:02 - why boundaries give more freedom.</p><p>52:14 - boundaries with children.</p><p>54:46 - just do what makes you happy is terrible advice.</p><p>56:46 - the standard you walk past is the standard you accept.</p><p>58:18 - sometimes leaders only have bad options to choose from.</p><p>1:00:14 - leadership is not about you.</p><p>1:02:44 - a leader's reputation is their influence.</p><p>1:06:1 - making an unpopular decision that you believe will be best for the long term.</p><p>1:10:49 - reputation is based on your character but not fully in your own control.</p><p>1:12:57 - how to become more self-aware as leaders.</p><p>1:15:30 - everyone is a leader.</p><p>1:16:11 -