Connection vs. Detachment: Fulfilling Our Own Needs Without Becoming Islands of Selfishness

<p>Connection is at the center of so much of our lives and relationships. In this episode, Taralyn, Felica, and Katelin wrestle with the concept of how to maintain connection with others and live wholeheartedly, while still releasing what we cannot control and detaching from the outcome. Detachment is a popular word in some self-help philosophy, and it is a valuable concept because it allows us to not cling onto things we are unable to control. However, each of us values deep connection. We share metaphors we have come up with to help us wrap our minds around these ideas and how to love deeply, give without resentment, and express our needs to others. How can we sacrifice beautifully for those we love, while still staying whole ourselves? How can we follow our dreams without becoming an island with empty relationships? We talk about possibilities of finding a balance on this topic.</p> <p><strong>BOOKS:</strong></p> <p><a href="https://amzn.to/3kV7ORD"><u>Nonviolent Communication</u></a> // Marshall Rosenberg</p> <p><a href="https://amzn.to/34buQhg"><u>Loving What Is</u></a> // Byron Katie</p> <p><a href="https://amzn.to/3hrK7jo"><u>A New Eart</u></a>h // Eckhart Tolle</p> <p><strong>RELATED EPISODES</strong></p> <p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/find-the-magic/id1448424341?i=1000450854528"><u>Finding Joy and Enthusiasm in Every Day</u></a></p> <p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/find-the-magic/id1448424341?i=1000464012220"><u>Our Daily Meditation&nbsp;</u></a></p> <p><strong>EPISODE SPONSORS</strong></p> <p><a href="https://apps.apple.com/us/app/mamazen-mindful-parenting-app/id1523198397"><u><strong>MamaZen</strong></u></a><strong>: Mindful Parenting App</strong></p> <p>If you’re experiencing impatience, anger, anxiety, and feel frustrated with your kids, then you need to get this app. MamaZen will teach you how to control your negative emotions so you can deal with your kids’ difficult behavior with more love and patience. You’ll feel calmer, happier, and more connected to your kid