CC: Reair EP: 118 Navigating the Mother-Daughter Relationship with Kristin

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This episode is about self-honoring choices, ultimatums, and jealousy in mother-daughter relationships. Today’s caller, Kristin, is looking for guidance in how to proceed after her mother gave her an ultimatum. We also look at the compensatory strategies Kristin has adopted in an effort to deal with things from her childhood.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[For show notes go here:</span> <a href="http://christinehassler.com/episode118"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">Christinehassler.com/episode118</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">]</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">What is a self-honoring choice? A self-honoring choice is an honest choice rooted in truth that comes from love. Kristin felt she was always in competition with her mother. She became a perfectionist as a compensatory strategy because she felt that she could only receive love if she was perfect. Through her growth work, she is starting to make self-honoring choices for herself.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">What are you passionate about? What you are passionate about is often a tie into our spiritual curriculum and our parents are part of that curriculum. Remember, we choose our parents as our teachers. When our parents don’t see us for who we truly are, it can seem cruel. But, part of our soul journey is to heal from past cruelty.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">What do you long for from your parents?</span></p> <p> </p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Be sure to check out</span></em> <a href= "https://christinehassler.com/tag/coaches-corner/"><em><span style= "font-weight: 400;">Coaches Corner</span></em></a><em><span style= "font-weight: 400;">. Last week I talked about ghosting and flaky behavior, the week before I interviewed Jill about selling skills and I even answer questions. So, if you have a question for me, email</span></em> <em><span style= "font-weight: 400;">assist@ChristineHassler.com</span></