Can you save a relationship after an affair?

<p>Saving a relationship that is worth saving:&nbsp;</p> <p>o Infidelity is often a warning sign of bigger problems in the &nbsp;relationship. &nbsp;&nbsp;</p> <p>o Recurring conflict also causes disconnection. &nbsp;</p> <p>o When one or both of the needs are being met in the relationship, you &nbsp;tend to look outside of the relationship to get this need met. &nbsp;&nbsp;</p> <p>To begin the process of repair:&nbsp;</p> <p>o Both of you have to want to repair and save the relationship. &nbsp;</p> <p>o John Gottman research identifies 4 things that can lead to the demise &nbsp;of a relationship called the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse: &nbsp;</p> <p> Criticism- &nbsp;</p> <p> Contempt &nbsp;</p> <p> Defensiveness &nbsp;</p> <p> Stonewalling &nbsp;&nbsp;</p> <p>How to dissolve The Four Horsemen in your Relationship: &nbsp;&nbsp;</p> <p>Actions to begin taking:</p> <p>You both have to be willing to do the work to repair the relationship. &nbsp;</p> <p>To truly forgive the other person. &nbsp;&nbsp;</p> <p>THE GOAL: To learn how to love one another better and better every &nbsp;single day. &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p> <p>For a complimentary session with me to Transform your Life for Success, &nbsp;click the following link to schedule a call with me. https://traviasteward.com/contact/</p>