Building Confidence EP10

I recently talked to a lady who simply just said I wish I had more confidence. How many of you can relate to that statement, keep in mind this is a mom in her late 30’s saying she wishes she had more confidence. How do we get to an adult and still lack confidence? Let’s talk about what confidence is. Confidence is knowing you can rely on yourself, it is the ability to believe in oneself. To choose the best path or best decision at the time and take action. Confidence is the willingness to try. When we break this down, what area of life are you not confident in? Is it lacking in knowledge, skill, ability, or talent?  Those are 4 key areas you can look at and guess what if you are really into this, the one area that you lack confidence in has already popped into your mind.  That is the one you need to change your self-talk on. Take the one area you need to work on and decide to work on it. It is a skill you build upon year after year, your life experience is the secret to gaining more confidence. Not better than anyone else, more confidence in the area you simply desire. People who are really willing to try and take risks hit periods when they doubt themselves, don’t feel confident, and that confidence comes and goes as you grow.  The whole point of life is to grow or when we level up as some call it in personal development, our old stuff comes up our fears, our doubts and you don’t feel confident, and it again brings up the willingness to try. So, let’s do this. I loved to ask my audience where they are right now with their confidence. Now to be completely transparent, my confidence with his podcast is on a scale of 1-10 is probably at a 4 because my interests are already shifting. Step number one; the first step in being more confident is to decide, decide to be more confident. You don’t need more people to tell you are amazing, awesome, beautiful, smart, you have to believe in today. I am going to stand taller and be more confident, let’s not overwhelm ourselves and say for the rest of my life