Bluntcake: People-pleasing sabotages connection and belonging

<p>Bluntcake: People-pleasing sabotages connection and belonging<br/><br/>Note: Bluntcake episodes are more direct and firm information that can be confronting, especially when looking at one&apos;s own behaviors. Please check in with your capacity before listening or watching. Doing so helps you make an informed choice about listening to information that may bring some activation to your body.  This allows you to take responsible action on your behalf on what you take into your daily experience and how it affects you.<br/><br/>People-pleasing is the habit of doing things for others that we believe will cause them to like or choose us.  It is a form of worth-seeking that is driven by a fear that rejection defines one&apos;s worth.<br/><br/>It is one of the six core expressions of codependency.  <br/><br/>It&apos;s opposite is being yourself, asking directly for what you want, and receiving the outcomes.<br/><br/>Learn what to do to disengage people-pleasing and make asking and sharing yourself safer and easier in today&apos;s episode!<br/><br/><br/>***<br/><br/>Seeking help in healing codependency? Join The Heal Your Codependency Community and get access to weekly experiments, practices, and support in your healing journey: https://community.freetheself.com<br/><br/><br/>***<br/><br/>Connect with me on social media and via email, and learn more about how I heal codependency permanently even when therapy and self-help efforts have failed you: https://links.freetheself.com<br/><br/>***<br/>[The Essential Codependency Healing Trainings]<br/><br/>There are 8 necessary factors that create lasting healing and freedom from codependency:<br/><br/> Safety<br/> Sanity<br/> Personal Sovereignty<br/> Trust Yourself<br/> Know Yourself<br/> Love Yourself<br/> Be Yourself<br/> Share Yourself<br/><br/>I will be teaching the essential skills and knowledge in each of these factors starting March 12, 2023 in my 8-week course, &quot;The Essential Codependency Healing Trainings&quot;.<br/><br/>These eight trainings give you the cruci