Ask Jordyn (Part 5): The Butterfly Effect

<p>Have You hear of the butterfly effect. Well, today, we will take a deep dive into it. Let's get to it.===</p> <p>[00:00:00] Tuoyo Eresanara: like, and of course there's also something the flip side of enjoy every moment you see, I was, I got lost in this piece for a while. It's called the butterfly effect. Have you ever heard of that?</p> <p>[00:00:11] Jordyn Ruiz: Yes. Yeah.</p> <p>[00:00:12] Tuoyo Eresanara: So I got lost in the negative aspect of that butterfly effect, but for those who are not familiar with it, the butterfly effect is that the flopping of a butterfly wings somewhere. Led to like wind pressures that ended up generating a tornado or hurricane that ended up causing major destructions or changes in people's communities.</p> <p>[00:00:32] So it's the idea that the smallest things you do have such a huge impact. And that thing really crippled me a lot because then I stopped living. in the now. I was like, oh my God, what if I mess up? I make the wrong choice. Everything is going to be ruined. The world is going to be ruined. And I spiraled and I, yeah, I was scared of making decisions.</p> <p>[00:00:54] I was scared of making mistakes and it took me a while to get out of that, but to learn to live right now and [00:01:00] just enjoy every morning, trust the Lord and live for today. </p> <p>[00:01:03] Jordyn Ruiz: And I think also the idea of like, knowing that what you do matters is such a important as important concept. Because if you think about it, we're all connected.</p> <p>[00:01:14] And so if you're showing up at your best. You're doing yourself, a service, and you are doing others, a service too. And so I also used to think like, you know, about that sort of spiraling, like if I wasn't showing up my best, I was affecting so many other things that, you know, you need to sort of surrender to that and like, know that life is happening as it's supposed to happen.</p> <p>[00:01:38] If we're not putting forceful with our forceful will on things and just showing up and even the best way