Are You Trying To Get People To Choose You?

<p>Are you hoping someone chooses you?  Are you seeking to be chosen?<br/><br/>In codependency, these impulses to get someone to choose us is a reflection of how unchosen we were growing up.<br/><br/>Sometimes we feel chosen by  parent, but not by peers.  Sometimes it is both.  Sometimes it is peers, but not a parent.<br/><br/>When this is prominent, it creates a profound sense of being less-than and that we have to compensate for this perceived lack by trying to get people to see us, value us, and choose us.<br/><br/>People-pleasing, perfectionism, and being a high achiever are ways we try to get that to happen.<br/><br/>Learn how to end the habit of chasing love, inclusion, and approval and what to do to get the attention, care, and inclusion you seek in today&apos;s episode.<br/><br/>***<br/><br/>Seeking help in healing codependency? Join The Heal Your Codependency Community and get access to weekly experiments, practices, and support in your healing journey: <a href='https://community.freetheself.com'>https://community.freetheself.com</a><br/><br/><br/>***<br/><br/>Connect with me on social media and via email, and learn more about how I heal codependency permanently even when therapy and self-help efforts have failed you: <a href='https://links.freetheself.com'>https://links.freetheself.com</a><br/><br/>***<br/><br/>[The 8 Factors That Heal Codependency Permanently Workshop]<br/><br/>This 1-day training is for codependents, perfectionists, and people-pleasers who have struggled to find healing in their private therapy or self-help efforts.  <br/><br/>I will show you why your efforts to heal from codependency haven&apos;t worked, why that is NOT your fault, and I will give you my proven strategy that makes ends your needs for codependency permanently.<br/><br/>Specifically, you will learn:<br/><br/>1) What the actual cause of codependent behaviors is and how that unlocks permanent healing<br/><br/>2) The 3 Necessities that drive your well-being and happiness<br/><br/>3) The 8 factors that end codependency per