Are You Striving to Be Good Enough for a Narcissist?

<p>Even perfection won't and can't cut it if you're in relationship with a Hijackal of any stripes. This episode will help you understand this cycle, how it works, why it won't work, and why it needs to stop. These concepts can spell R-E-L-I-E-F for you! </p><br><p>If you had a narcissistic or Hijackal parent, you were pre-conditioned to accept the poor treatment of a Hijackal. That's difficult enough! Then, you may find yourself in a supposedly romantic relationship with one, and eventually it starts to resemble the one with your parents, right? No accident! </p><br><p>Hijackals are particularly interested in people who have been "pre-groomed" to accept their sad, frustrating, and infuriating shenanigans. So, if you did have a Hijackal parents (or, like me, had two of them), you are set up to be Hijackal Bait by that experience. </p><br><p>You may not have felt good enough with your parents, at school, in a sports situation, or with friends. Then, the Hijackal--that person who is supposed to love you in every way--takes over the abusive behaviors. You may think that it is your job to please the Hijackal, to make them happy. NO! It isn't your job. But, a Hijackal will certainly turn those tables on you, leaving you feeling as though you can never be good enough. </p><br><p>This has to change. This episode will help you start that journey, or accelerate it. </p><br><p><strong>HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:</strong></p><ul><li>Two kinds of people Hijackals and narcissists look for</li><li>Why you may never have felt good enough</li><li>How Hijackals, narcissists and anti-social people control you</li><li>Why perfection will never be enough</li><li>How to break the cycle </li></ul><p><br></p><p>These things can be difficult to change and integrate without professional help. &nbsp;<a href="http://beaclient.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">I'm here to help</a>.</p><br><p>Let's talk soon.</p><p>Rhoberta</p><br><p><strong>Want clarity, insights, strategies, an