ACCOUNTABILITY vs RESPONSIBILITY – “If I Have To Protect You, Why Can’t I Hold You Accountable.” [PART 2]

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">ACCOUNTABILITY vs RESPONSIBILITY - "If I Have To Protect You, Why Can't I Hold You Accountable." [PART 2]</span></p> <p><a href= "https://lolaandola.com/accountability-vs-blame-in-relationships/">--> READ THE BLOG POST HERE</a></p> <p><a href= "https://lolaandola.com/accountability-vs-blame-in-relationships/">https://lolaandola.com/accountability-vs-blame-in-relationships/</a></p> <p> </p> <p><a href="https://youtu.be/WkOrtvyZONE">--> WATCH VIDEO VERSION HERE</a><br /> <a href= "https://youtu.be/WkOrtvyZONE">https://youtu.be/WkOrtvyZONE</a></p> <p> </p> <h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Accountability Vs Blame In Relationships & Marriage</span></h2> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Thank you so much for being here.  Please support the channel by hitting the like button, sharing the video and more importantly, sharing your thoughts and engaging in the comment area below.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In my last video before part 1 on Will Smith’s apology video, I talked about blame as a function of baseless guilt and shaming.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Accountability on the flip side is a function of a solid foundation and set of values that all involved parties have subscribed to.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">When you hold people accountable, you should be holding them to account for agreed standards within the right frame of mind.  But when you mix that up with blame, shame, insults, there will be distortion of what the standards are… naturally.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I personally have to continually work on this when I hold men accountable.  It’s hard when I can clearly see the wrong to not use certain languages to express my frustrations.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I tend to say things like lame, incel, weak etc.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Shaming, blaming, insults, condemnations simply cannot be in