94. Believe in Yourself: It’s Selfish Not To…

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Do you believe in yourself? Like, truly believe in yourself? It’s something that most people struggle with… </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There are typically 3 types of people when it comes to self-belief or self-confidence. There is one camp that doesn’t believe in themselves at all and struggles to admit their life has any purpose or meaning so why dream big at all…</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">On the other side of the camp, there are people who believe too much in themselves and they bulldoze everyone in their path to see their dreams come true without another thought about the people they may have hurt… </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Maybe you find yourself in one of those camps, or maybe you are somewhere in the middle. After having many conversations with friends, family, clients and organizations, and others I found that most people would say they are somewhere in the middle of both camps.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><strong>A lot of people struggle with the balance between believing in themselves and serving others. They often wonder and struggle with questions like: </strong></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">is it okay to take a stand for myself?</span></em></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Is it okay to believe in me?</span></em></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Is it okay to take care of me first?</span></em></p> <p><strong>And then immediately followed with questions and thoughts like:</strong></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">But where do I cross the line?</span></em></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Am I being selfish?</span></em></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Who do I think I am anyway?</span></em></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">I didn’t reach my last goal anyway…</span></em></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Can you relate? Welcome back to another episode! Just Chris here, flying solo for this week's show. Recently, I stumbled upon