9. Is My Spouse an Emotional Vending Machine? with Dr. Devon Gimbel

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER</span></p> <p><strong>Medicine:</strong><span style= "font-weight: 400;"> </span></p> <ul> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Her rules on dating a medical school classmate and why this changed</span></li> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Expectations women physicians place on themselves</span></li> </ul> <p><strong>Marriage:</strong><span style= "font-weight: 400;"> </span></p> <ul> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">The emotional vending machine</span></li> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">How to find time for your spouse during training </span></li> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">The transition to parenthood and recruiting help</span></li> </ul> <p><strong>Money:</strong></p> <ul> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">How a toilet cleaning wand brought awareness of her money scarcity</span></li> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why money means freedom</span></li> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">How you can afford anything, but not everything</span></li> </ul> <p><strong>Extra:</strong></p> <ul> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">How to differentiate what is happening from what we think is happening</span></li> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why she rarely if ever struggles with Mom guilt</span></li> </ul> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">TAKE HOME POINTS FROM DEVON</span></p> <ol> <li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Your spouse is NOT an Emotional Vending Machine.   </span></li> <li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">When you have money, you have freedom.</span></li> <li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Next time you think “I just want to live life on your own terms”, recognize that you already are! Own it!</span></li> </ol> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">WALK AWAY ASKING YOURSELF</span></p> <ul> <li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Do I place expectations upon myself because I think others are expecting things of me?</span></li> <li><span sty