89. The Drunk Whisperer

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Verbal de-escalation is a tool that can be learned by almost anyone. In this episode, we learn from two masters in the art of de-escalating those who are agitated and upset:  Jose Pacheco, RN, known affectionately to his co-workers as ‘The Drunk Whisperer’,  and Dan McCollum, MD,  emergency physician at Augusta University. The core of this conversation hinges around an approach to conflict resolution that evolved from the martial arts principle of using your opponent’s energy to resolve conflict, rather than simply butting heads. The name for this method? Verbal Judo.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A proviso to all of this is that if the room/scene needs to be safe. Your top priority is to keep yourself and your team safe. Do not put yourself at risk. That doesn’t always mean physical escalation (though sometimes it does), it can simply mean removing yourself from the physical space of the escalating situation. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Mentioned in this episode:</span> <a href= "https://www.wildhealthsummit.com/conference/physicians"><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Awake and Aware Physician conference</span></a> <span style= "font-weight: 400;">sponsored by Wild Health. Jan 13-15 Sedona Arizona. Use the code</span> <strong>CONSCIOUSPHYSICIAN</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">for 15% off (that’s 15% off the whole package - lodging, meals, the course)</span></p> <p> </p> <p><strong>Interested in one-on-one coaching? Learn more at</strong> <a href= "https://roborman.com"><strong>roborman.com</strong></a></p> <p><strong>To support the show - visit</strong> <a href= "https://www.patreon.com/stimuluspod"><strong>our Patreon site</strong></a> <strong>and help keep the wind in the sails.</strong></p> <p><strong>For full show notes visit</strong> <a href= "https://roborman.com/category/stimulus/"><strong>our podcast page</strong></a></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">We discuss:</span></p> <ul> <li><strong>Jose Pacheco's tactics