86. Don't settle for "what if.."

<p>Get it out of the way. You will never be fully present in the moment or focused on the things you want to build in the future if you&#39;re caught up on what could have happened in the past. Don&#39;t settle for what if. Don&#39;t spend the rest of your life thinking &#34;what if I did this when..&#34; or &#34;what if I said how I felt&#34; etc. Get it out of the way.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Topics discussed in this episode:</strong></p><ul><li>getting the little and big things out of the way</li><li>when you have feelings left unsaid</li><li>have you considered what YOU really want or have you been on autopilot?</li><li>losing people when you start living for YOU</li><li>people aren&#39;t as concerned about you as you think</li><li>don&#39;t worry about how your life looks to others or what other people&#39;s lives look like</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Mentioned in this episode:</strong></p><ul><li>Episode #35 - This is why you think you&#39;re behind in life (Run your own race)</li></ul><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><strong>GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20:</strong></p><p><a href="https://secludedthoughts.com/journals" rel="nofollow">https://secludedthoughts.com/journals</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>LET&#39;S STAY CONNECTED!</strong></p><p>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts</a></p><p>Youtube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcast" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcast</a></p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/secluded.thoughts/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/secluded.thoughts/</a></p><p> </p><p>Sponsorship Inquiries: hello@secludedthoughts.com</p><br/><br/>Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/secluded-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/secluded-thoughts/donations</a><br/><br/>Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a><br/><br/>Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://re