75: Removing Blocks to Being in a Relationship with Leila

<p>Today’s episode is about manifesting a relationship. Leila has been impacted by her father’s happiness, or lack of it, much more than she realizes. She would like guidance on how to remove any blocks she has formed. [For show notes go here: <a href= "http://christinehassler.com/episode75">http://christinehassler.com/episode75</a>] As you heard in the call, Leila’s true inspiration for calling in was the desire to be in a loving relationship, and to understand why she wasn’t attracting the kind of relationship she wants in her life. Programming from our past can impact us more than we are aware. In Leila’s case, she didn’t realize her father’s apathy towards his own life affected her. As a child, she felt like he wasn’t excited to be with her, and she felt not chosen and not fully seen. She longed for a connection with her father. <em>We can only give the love we give ourselves.</em> A parent’s impact on us is often more obvious when they have been abusive or suffer from an addiction. It’s important to look at the more subtle things that may be affecting you. Leila also didn’t want to take on the responsibility of fixing someone or making them happy. She felt taking on a relationship would be a heavy weight and a burden, and she would be responsible for making the man happy. It’s important to note that the role of a romantic partner and role of a parent are two very different things. <em>Listen to my Coaches Corner with</em> <a href= "http://christinehassler.com/2017/02/marieforleo/"><em>Marie Forleo of B-School</em></a><em>. B-School is an online business school that covers everything you need to know to start your own business, plus I am offering</em> <a href= "http://christinehassler.com/Bschool/"><em>bonuses</em></a> <em>because I believe in the program so much. I am offering four live group coaching calls, a guided meditation and visualization for each module and some new surprises for 2017! Email</em> <a href="mailto:Jill@christinehassler.com"><em>Jill@christinehassler.com</em></a><em>.</em> <em>And Andre