49: Date Smarter Rather than Harder

<p>Do you hate being single and want to get results.</p> <p>Singles tell me every day just how frustrated they are.&nbsp;</p> <p><em>Being a Dating/Relationship Coach I always ask them what they are doing about meeting someone! &nbsp;</em></p> <p><em>They often answer ‘Not much’ and add ‘it doesn’t work so why bother!’</em></p> <p>Or for others, they are exhausted from spending a lot of time on apps swiping obsessively. <strong>Yet when I look at what they are doing they don’t send messages or arrange any dates.</strong></p> <p>The reality is that <strong>this is the reason why</strong> way too many singles are not getting results on dating apps.&nbsp; <strong>They are doing dating apps by not doing them!</strong></p> <p>Spoiler alert, if you don’t do anything you are going to stay single. Dating, just like anything else in life it takes some type of effort on your part. &nbsp;Laziness doesn’t get results nor does avoiding it!</p> <h2><strong>Can you relate to this:</strong></h2> <p><strong>Do you Hate Being Single But......</strong></p> <ul> <li>Say no to everyone</li> <li>Don't reply on apps for days or weeks</li> <li>Send minimal responses</li> <li>Unmatch for the dumbest things</li> <li>Cancel dates cos you don't feel like the effort</li> </ul> <h2>If you answered yes, this could be the reason you are not getting results on dating apps!</h2> <p>Okay maybe you are a hopeless romantic and you are hanging out for that <u><em><strong>rare</strong></em></u> love story where you meet serendipitously (found by some miraculous chance) as it is your destiny. <strong>But, I see way too many singles who have waited for a decade and nothing has happened.</strong> The reality is that you can’t count on that chance meeting. What you can count on is putting some real effort into getting results on dating apps</p> <blockquote><strong>It is all about being smarter in how you use dating apps rather than working harder!</strong></blockquote> <h2><strong>In this week's podcast, I am going to tell you how!</strong></h2>