29: Easy-peasy Ways to Build Attraction Through Text and Messages

<p>Like it or not text messaging is a HUGE part of how you date in the 21st century. It's a pretty new skill that you HAVE to have to get results.</p> <p>If you want to be successful in getting a first, second or third date you need to have good texting skills otherwise you will miss out on dating the person you want. Especially when it comes to online dating, where it is your first ever conversation.</p> <p>When you text, you don't get to see how the other person feels about what you are saying. You don't get the chance to see if they are smiling or offended like you would in person! Texting is SO open to misinterpretation and is one of the biggest reasons you could be missing out on meeting the person who is right for YOU.</p> <p>As a Relationship Coach for men and women, I see how simple mistakes from both sexes STOP them from getting dates. I see how the assumptions they make get in the way of results.</p> <p>Men and women tend to communicate differently by text message and I see this every day when I see the text message they send and can instantly tell why they are missing the mark.</p> <p>Men often treat messages as outcome-based and transactional. They will use them to communicate a set outcome like - 'Let's meet for dinner at the Queens at 7 pm. Rather than having a conversation to get the lady, they are talking to feel comfortable enough to meet them.</p> <p>Women on the other hand want to get to know someone a little, to feel safe and comfortable and do this via a text message conversation.</p> <p>Women get frustrated, thinking if a guy was really interested in them, he would make the effort to be interested when he is talking to her via text.</p> <p>The problem is men aren't always super great at messaging and ladies you miss out on quality guys who can't message - which is a high percentage of them!</p> <p>In this week's podcast the ladies will find out how to stop doing this and the men will find out easy-peasy ways to text to get results!</p> <p>Win-win, right?</p> <p><br></p>