285 - How to End Codependency with Your Clients

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I am recording in a new way today because I’ve given myself the permission to know the season I am in. What I’ve learned is that I am much more inspired when I’m not in the home office so I’m driving!</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Today’s episode was inspired by a recent mastermind conversation and it’s something I’m no stranger to. In any client relationship, there is sometimes a level of codependency. Sometimes, it doesn’t really impact us in a major way, but it’s truly unnecessary. So in this go-with-the-flow episode, we’re diving into what causes that codependency and what we can do about it.</span></p> <p> </p> <h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Show Notes:</span></h3> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[2:28] - If you are doing a good job at what you do and you are serving people, it is normal and expected that your rates will increase.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[4:06] - You may come across clients that are triggered by how you run your business and if they have an issue, they are just not your client.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[5:45] - There are unnecessary elements of codependency in the client relationship.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[7:25] - Elyse has had the most income, the best clients, and the most in flow, it was when there was nothing that needed to be rearranged when it comes to boundaries.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[8:56] - We do not own our clients.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[10:03] - Our only job is to show up and deliver our best.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[11:49] - When we understand that clients are not a source and you are in your inner power, if a client leaves, the money is going to come in another way.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[13:50] - We need to sell from wholeness.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[14:59] - So much of Elyse’s self worth was tied into her success in sales.</span></p>