267. How To Be Awesome At Transforming Your Pain Into Fuel

<p dir="ltr">I’ve learned that the best motivator for change and growth is not motivation, it’s not in your morning routine… it’s a actually PAIN. </p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Pain from the past or pain that you are going through now, can be your superpower and your driver for starting the next chapter. </p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Maybe someone in your life told you that you’re a loser and you’ll always be a loser- you can either sit in the pain and anger of that - or you can get to work.</p> <p dir="ltr">There’s only one actual type of revenue and it’s called success. </p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">I’d rather be at rock bottom than in a mediocre situation, which might sound crazy but I believe this 100%.  Because at rock bottom you have FIRE to change.  When things aren’t great but aren’t terrible, most people don’t make the decisions that are best for them or have the conversations they need to have. </p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">We’re leaning into your pain today and actually making it your superpower. </p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">The second title of this podcast was going to be - the best type of revenge - because it’s all very similar. </p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">It’s like this… pain motivates faster than pleasure.  Use your pain! </p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Pain is the best motivator for change and growth.</p> <p dir="ltr">We can either sit with the pain and think about who’s fault it is and how shitty this is… OR we can take that pain and use it to give us gas baby.  </p> <p dir="ltr">It’s pain both ways- the pain of staying the same or the pain of change and struggle to become the person that you really want to be.  I’ll take the second type of pain all day. </p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">SUCCESS is the only revenge.</p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">You don’t beat them - they fade away because of what you’ve become. </p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr">So many high perform