265. Learn to Hold Your Boundaries with Healthy Selfishness

<p>You’ve tried to draw a boundary with your partner, boss or best friend, but they call you selfish, self-absorbed or even narcissistic! How could dare you prioritize yourself over what they want? In my new book, Boundaries Made Easy (which is dropping in just a couple of weeks on 12/5/23), I dispel the myth that holding a boundary is selfish and explain what healthy selfishness is all about. Today, I’m giving you a sneak peek into what selfishness really is and how you can learn to hold your boundaries with healthy selfishness.  </p> <p>____________________________<br /> Full blog and show notes: <a href= "https://abbymedcalf.com/learn-to-hold-your-boundaries-with-healthy-selfishness" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">https://abbymedcalf.com/learn-to-hold-your-boundaries-with-healthy-selfishness</a> </p> <p>____________________________</p> <p>A great idea to stay motivated and keep your head in a positive direction is to buy some of my fabulous, inspirational merchandise. Get a t-shirt, mug, tote bag or notebook this holiday season with that daily reminder that you’ve got this! <a href= "https://abbymedcalf.com/shop">https://abbymedcalf.com/shop</a><br /> <br /> Want to feel happier and more connected in your relationship? Buy my #1 bestselling book on Amazon, Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won’t Do a Thing: <a href= "https://abbymedcalf.com/book">https://abbymedcalf.com/book</a> <br /> <br /> Looking for past episodes of the Relationships Made Easy Podcast? Head over to <a href="https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast" target= "_blank" rel="noopener">https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast</a> and <a href="https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast-the-archives" target= "_blank" rel= "noopener">https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast-the-archives</a> where you’ll find every single episode.<br /> <br /> Subscribe today to get my love letter to you! This biweekly reminder will keep you on the path to creating connected, happy relationships (especially the one with yourself!). <a href= "https://abbymedcalf.com">https://abbymedcalf.com</a